Interdependence

I was thinking about how people, desires, dreams, and needs are connected.  And so I pose these questions...

When he wants and calls to what he perceives as love and that love responds to his calls...is it okay? 
When that love wants and he responds to that love calling...is that okay? 
When his vowed love cries out to him as he wants his perceived love does he ignore his vowed loved cries to be where he smiles?
When his vowed love calls out to him and he chooses to ignore what is the response?

If ALL is energy and spirit and energy is power.. when cries and calls are answered and ignored, how does energy and spirit restore the balance?

Just asking